Dear Mr. Maxwell,
Today is your 4th birthday! I cannot believe I have a 4 year old boy. For some reason 4 seems so big to me... less toddler and more boy! I'm so happy your birthday is finally here because you've been wanting to be 4 since the day after your 3rd birthday! I've been able to hold you off a little better by telling you you're 3 years 8 months, 3 years 9 months, etc. I'm not so sure why you're in such a hurry to grow up, but you definitely are. (except for when I told you the other night that you don't get rocked before bed after you turn 4 and you had some strong objections to that rule stating that you're still little:)
One of my favorite things about you these days is your love for school. You are a sponge right now for new things. Letters are a favorite these days. The other day you were wearing your New Zealand sheep shirt and said, "Mom, I know how to spell lamb! S-H-E-E-P lamb! It was priceless. You see letters in the clouds and on cracks in the cement! You're starting to realize that letters make sounds, but it's still a pretty new thing. You're also very interested in the calendar and the clock. Always wanting to know what day it is and what time it is! Mostly because you want to know how many more days until your birthday and how many minutes until the bus gets here with your friends!
You are definitely a rule follower. You're also a rule enforcer. If someone is not following the rules, you make sure to let me or their mom or dad know. Sometimes this can be good (like when a 10 month old is about to go down the stairs) but sometimes it can be bad and it sounds more like tattling. We're working on you knowing the difference:)
Big boys continue to be the very best part of your world. The neighbor kids are so wonderful to you and include you whenever they are playing. You've learned lots from them (What up dude? being one of them) I'm so thankful that they are very nice to you and I only hope someday when another little boy is living in our neighborhood that you do the same for him. The big kids are starting to get more and more involved with activities so they're not home as often, so you're really looking forward to summer when everyone is home again! Other favorites these days include eating, (must be growing?) the TV show Arthur, monster trucks, transformers, Superman, Batman, Spiderman, Ironman and whatever other "man" there is out there! You know our address and are working on our phone number. When I asked you what you wanted to be when you grow up, you said a race car driver or a pilot! Thanks to your daddy for watching the Daytona 500 a couple weeks ago with you for the race car driver one:)
You love adults and kids alike. You have the kind of voice that when you talk, people listen. They are just so curious what you're going to say! You overcame your tonsils and adenoid surgery like a total champ. Your voice changed slightly, but for the most part it's still the same low voice that so many people love:) There were a couple of rough patches, but overall it was the best thing for you. You do not snore anymore and you don't even get up to go potty at night time anymore! I think your snoring used to wake you up so you'd come in to our room to go potty just because you were awake. Now you are a dream sleeper and we're so thankful.
You remind me a lot of myself when it comes to your sibling relationships. When Mya does something to you that is out of line, you are the first to tell me about it. However, when I put Mya in time-out or take something away from her, you're the first to defend her. One day I told Mya if she didn't go potty we were going to the store without her. Mya didn't seem to care one bit. You, on the other hand, were begging and pleading with me to not leave her. It was so cute and I definitely learned my lesson to not joke around about leaving someone behind. You and Mya play so well together when neither of you are hungry or tired or thirsty or hot or cold or ...well, you pretty much get my drift. Conditions have to be perfect and the two of you are besties.
I feel like I could go on and on about what a blessing you are in our lives. I am so happy for you that you get to wear a crown at school today and pick something out of the birthday bag! Your daddy and I are very proud to be your parents.
Love,
Mommy
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